To Restore my Marriage, I had to go Deep; Ninalowo Bolanle

To restore my marriage, I had to go deep. I had to ask myself hard questions. I had to look at the man I had become. I cheated. I neglected her. I was chasing dreams while she was building a life without me.

She was taking records. She was collecting pain. And slowly, I became someone she couldn’t recognise. I didn’t see it happening. But one day, she looked at me, and I saw the truth in her eyes. She had become comfortable without me.

To bring her back, I had to start over. I had to detox from everything I used to be. It was not easy. But healing never is.

— Ninalowo Bolanle

Finally, a man has accepted to have missed out and neglected what he shared with his family and has owned up to his mistakes.

Marriage isn't supposed to be hard if couples value and respect each other, never allowing outsiders to come between them and spoil what has been built over the years.

Do not let anyone come between you and your family in a negative way. Welcome only people with good intentions.

Glad this two are working out to fix things.

What you need is just one partner and extended family members who genuinely cares about you.

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