HOW TO MAKE A FRIEND FALL INLOVE WITH YOU........


Are you finding it difficult to tell your friend that you have fallen for her, here is simply what to do;

 

✓ First, attempt to become her best friend; not just any other friend, become someone that she couldn't live without, someone who listens to all her problems and always helps out when times get hard. 


✓ Open up and tell her about yoursef; your dreams, wishes and sorrows. It's possible for love to grow where there previously wasn't any, but she has to think of you as a person with real goals, successes, and problems instead of just a friend. 


✓ Make the person feel special; Let her know that she is someone's friend -ur friend- and that you value her in a unique way.


✓ Always compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, cheer and encourage her. 

Before you two get too close and pass the ' I love you as a friend, u need to give her hints that you might like her more than as a friend. 


✓ Start with simple harmless flirts, comments, something that would make her tell you that you are sweet, but also make her think a moment longer about the comment and wonder if there is another deep meaning to it all. 

For instance; tell her how much you admire her, how special she is to you, how she makes your day easier to get through. Be a shoulder to lean on.


✓ Back off; this will let her know what she is missing when she doesn't see you. Only listen to feedback from her and if you are sure that you want to take the relationship further tell her but only do this if you are okay with the possibility of lossing a friend because it can get very awkward and uncomfortable if she knows that you want a relationship and she doesn't feel the same way about you. Know that you are risking a friendship to get a relationship.... 

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